A year at preschool…

It’s been a whole year since Alice started going to preschool, I can remember her first day like it was yesterday…


First day…

But, I am racing ahead, let me take you back to us making the decision to send Alice to preschool…When Alice turned two, we started to think that maybe Alice would need to start going somewhere that she could learn social skills on her own and learn new skills that I could not offer her at home.

I was on maternity leave with Holly and to begin with I battled with the decision to send her, when I was at home and not at work. But, after much discussion we knew that whilst I would love to have her by my side for every minute of her life, that is not the right thing for Alice…she sometimes has to be without her mummy (a silent sob!)

We moved house a couple of months later and started to look at preschool’s nearby. The minute I stepped into the preschool that Alice now attends, I knew it was right for her. It was a small setting and not overwhelming. It had everything that we were looking for and the staff were so friendly and welcoming.

We went for a settling in session together before christmas and whilst I was in the office filling in lots of forms. Alice was sat with her teacher, the lady that would become an important person in Alice’s life, and she only came to find me once, just to make sure I was still there. On the walk back home, I asked Alice if she would like to go back and she said ‘yes, please mummy, they have lots of things to play with and a slide in the garden’.

After Christmas it was time for Alice’s first day, her name was on her clothes and boots, her bag was packed…there was nothing else to do, but leave the house and walk to preschool.

Alice was so happy to be going and practically ran all the way, she couldn’t get there quick enough! We stood outside the gate and I looked down at my little girl who stood patiently waiting to go in and I was so proud of the person she had become and whilst I may not have been ready to send her off into the world on her own…I knew that she was.


Waiting to go in…

She found her name and posted it in the box, I gave her a hug and in she went. There were no tears, that I had been expecting, there was no ‘I don’t want you to leave mummy’, that I had been expecting…she just turned at the door and gave me a wave.

Of course, I cried on the walk home, not only because I missed her already, but more than anything I was so proud of her. She took the whole thing in her stride.

It was the longest two and half hours of my life, I kept thinking about what she might be doing, was she ok, what if she got upset and needed her pink cloth, would the teachers find it in her bag…it all just kept whirling around my head. I held Holly close and told her that she was never leaving mummy!!!

Finally it was time to leave, of course I arrived early and waited outside, trying to catch a glimpse of her inside. Then the gate opened and in we went, the teacher told me that Alice had a lovely morning, she didn’t get upset and she only asked for mummy once and was happy when they told her, I would be back soon to collect her.

Then her little smiley face was at the door and she ran out into my arms, so pleased to see me, but also so excited to tell me about what she had been doing. She took my hand and we walked home…my little girl was back with me.

She would be going again in three days time and I was ok with that, as listening to my little girl chat so happily about her time at preschool, I knew we had done the right thing.

My Alice now attends preschool…and that’s ok.

A year later and Alice still loves going. It’s been a year of first parents evening, first sports day, first nativity play and lots more. Alice enjoys every part of going to preschool, she loves her teachers, she loves the friends she has made, she loves taking something in for show and tell. There has never been any tears and she continues to walk as fast she can to get there.


A year later…

It was the best decision we ever made, our little girl continues to amaze us with everything she has learnt from being at preschool.

Next year it will be Holly’s turn and whilst I look at her now and think she is far to little to leave me, I know when the time comes it will be right thing to do.


Follow my blog with Bloglovin

Cuddle Fairy

Share this:


  1. February 4, 2016 / 12:35

    Lovely little post, it is so tough leaving them, I used to cry every time I dropped my girls at nursery , my eldest is now in reception and I still feel emotional leaving her some days. It is so important though and I’m so glad they did go to nursery. I am so pleased Alice enjoys it xx

    • February 4, 2016 / 21:20

      Thank you 🙂 I’m the same, it’s me that gets upset not Alice. Alice starts reception in September and just thinking about it makes me emotional. x

  2. mummydaddyme
    February 4, 2016 / 20:06

    I remember sobbing the first time I left both of mine but it soon gets easier doesn’t it? Now I must admit I enjoy the break and LL is absolutely thriving at nursery- she loves it! So glad that Alice loves it too. x

    • February 4, 2016 / 21:23

      Yes, thankfully it does get easier. I am the same, it’s nice to just have Holly for a couple of days a week. I get 121 time with Holly, knowing that Alice is learning so much and having lots of fun. x

  3. February 8, 2016 / 10:51

    Lovely post, it’s so great that she’s enjoying it and having a fab time! Marianna’s too young yet but I’m already dreading and looking forward to it in equal measure. I can’t believe how quickly the time has flown already and she’s soon going to be ready for some independence! x #marvmondays

    • February 8, 2016 / 21:38

      Ah, I am sure she will have a lovely time when she goes. They do seem to thrive on having some independence and it’s lovely watching them with their little friends. x

  4. February 8, 2016 / 14:50

    Lovely post but it does get easier doesn’t it and when you see how much they have learnt and how their personalities have grown you know it is worth it! Thanks for linking up to #sundaystars

    • February 9, 2016 / 19:57

      It is totally worth it, Alice has learnt so much in this year. x

  5. February 9, 2016 / 19:13

    Oh I remember this well with both of mine and quite recently with MM. It goes by so fast and they get so much from it don’t they? Thanks for linking up to Share With Me. #sharewithme

    • February 9, 2016 / 19:59

      They really do, its amazing how much they get from going. I have to do it all again with my youngest! x

  6. February 10, 2016 / 07:40

    Awwww what a lovely and reassuring post. I am dreading my youngest starting nursery this year so I needed to read that 🙂 #bloggersclub

    • February 12, 2016 / 18:36

      Thank you 🙂 I am pleased it has given you some reassurance. It is a difficult time and until that first day you don’t know how your little one is going to be. x

  7. February 10, 2016 / 20:43

    Aww it’s so hard the first time, even with other children they first few times you spend the whole time wondering what they are doing and if they are ok. Sounds like she loves it though. Thanks for linking to #PickNMix
    Eilidh x

    • February 12, 2016 / 18:31

      She really does love it, it makes it so much easier knowing she is having a great time x

  8. February 14, 2016 / 15:11

    Sounds like she is doing fabulously well. Monkey had been in nursery since 18 months and childcare 3 days a week since 6 months. I remember returning to work and it broke my heart leaving him. But he’s such a social little monkey now and I guess that’s one of the benefits. I am sure our first big school day will be hard though and we will find out how hard in Sept when a new chapter will begin. Growing up is so bittersweet in the eyes of the parents. Thank you for joining us at #BloggerClubUK hope to see you again next week xx

    • February 14, 2016 / 15:37

      She loves it 🙂 It’s tough being a mum and having to make all these decisions that will have such an impact on our little ones. Alice is also starting big school in September and I can’t believe it has come round so quickly. x

  9. February 14, 2016 / 18:50

    Aw, so glad she loves it and settled in so well! My little boy’s been going to nursery from 10 months and though I found it difficult at first, the change in him was unbelievable and he really loves it. It’s helped so much with his development and he loves being with the other children. Thanks for linking up to #MarvMondays. Kaye xo

    • February 14, 2016 / 20:29

      That’s great that he loves it, makes it so much easier to leave them. I love to see how much they learn from going and I am constantly surprised by the things she can do, as a result of going. x

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

CommentLuv badge